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September 02, 2010, 05:56:38 PM
work.life.creativitywork. life. creativityTime Management (Moderator: Stephen Smith)How many times do you "I'm going to bed now" before you make it to bed?
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« Reply #15 on: September 27, 2008, 04:48:38 AM »

I think Mark Forster mentioned somewhere, sometime about the "just one more thing" phenomenon. We've finished our tasks, we're ready to close down, and then the brain says, "just one more thing" -- one more web site, one more page, one more chore, etc. I don't remember the remedy, apart from writing the one more thing down on a piece of paper, which is a sort of distancing mechanism. By writing it down, you're externalizing the task and committing to it for later, so your brain leaves you alone.

Or something like that.

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« Reply #16 on: October 16, 2008, 06:42:12 AM »

Stephen...I can certainly relate.  My mind is at its best late at night.  This has cost me massive amounts of sleep, however.
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« Reply #17 on: November 08, 2008, 08:01:52 PM »

My wife and I recently committed to being in bed (like, lights off, sleeping) by 11pm. She's awesome at staying disciplined, so she's in there on the dot. I, on the other hand, am likely to be doing some cool Linux stuff or writing music or whatever...but she's really good at keeping me accountable. If she falls asleep before I'm in bed, I know she'll gently remind the next day that I really should be getting to sleep earlier. So accountability/partnership in your sleeping habits is good!
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« Reply #18 on: November 08, 2008, 10:08:30 PM »

Okay, Nathan, so I'll just work on getting a wife and I'll be all set!
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« Reply #19 on: February 02, 2009, 02:50:56 PM »

I know this may sound kind of lame, but I do a daily recap.  It's a great way of "putting my brain to bed."  You can do several interpretations of this, but I choose to pick five things I'm thankful for.

Example:

Today I'm thankful for:

1) String cheese
2) Free beer at [bar]
3) A good coaching session with [employee]
4) Killer workout
5) Finding really cheap gas

Sometimes I elaborate a little more, but you get the idea.  I choose to do it as a "thankful for" exercise because it's more optimistic.  I have a tendency to drag myself down near bedtime with the stress of everything that is coming in the next day or week etc.  This exercise causes me to stop and reflect on the good stuff.

Another great way to do this, as it would relate to GTD, would be to do a hits and misses style recap.  David Seah (The Printable C.E.O., http://www.davidseah.com) uses this method on a weekly basis to evaluate his productivity, but you could shorten it up and make it effective for the following day.

By making a short list of what went well and what didn't, in effect you are setting yourself up for success the next day.  Once you have written it all out, it's just that..."out."  You can give yourself permission to stop thinking about it.  The other cool thing about this type of exercise is that by reviewing your own records, you can track patterns.  For example, if one of your misses is that you were distracted and couldn't complete a specific task, you may find in reviewing your notes to yourself that this occurs every Thursday afternoon because you're thinking about your evening plans with your friends every week.  You could then schedule short-burst tasks for that time of day rather than lengthy projects.

Cheesy  Wow, that ended up being a long post!
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